I understand what you are going thru. I have dated gals that
have related such instances to me before and more than 1 occasion I
put myself into such a situation and wondered what would I
do.
The truth of the matter is that, as a guy, you HAVE to
stand by your gf. I assume that you're not lying about
loving her, because many guys lie in such situation (ie. she go
thru so much for me, yet I dun love her, that makes me evil...
blah)
I really do not think you're ready for such a big responsibility,
but if she wants the baby, then you MUST respect her decision.
Marry her, keep the baby and be a REAL man.
My experience has always been that the gal dun want the baby even
tho the guy is willing to marry her. The gals dun want to be stuck
with low paying army officers (these gals I know are very rich, and
they want to stay that way)and bring up a baby with him. They are
the ones telling the guy they want the abortion.
You have NO choice in this matter of keeping or aborting. You both
of course must think thru and see if you can keep the baby. Cost,
maturity, exam stress, environment to bring up the child, etc. Put
in every factor. And for once in your life, THINK.
I'm not asking you to shirk responsibility and push decision to
your gf, but I really feel that you 2 are not ready for a baby. The
gals I know are 20-25, filthy rich. Cost is not a problem. Yet the
gals want to abort because they are not ready to start a
family.
As for you, too bad, be a man. If you have problems doing that,
read the preceeding posts, some of them do teach you how.
