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originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:
"parents ah i not on good terms wif them even if i take drugs they
oso don't care wan they oso not fit to be parents dunno why give
birth to me"
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looks like your real problem is with yourself.you keep saying you
don't want children,i guess it's because you had a bad experience
with your family,and you see how hard your parents suffered for
their kids.so you are afraid to be like them.in one
word,fear.
go see a psychologist,he may be able to help you overcome your fear
of your past.seeimg a psychologist doesn't mean you're mentally
ill,instead it shows you want to cvercome your fear and face the
real problems in your life.if you can request your gf to go for an
abortion,would you go to a psychologist yourself?i'm not from
singapore,so anyone who lives there should intro one to him.
and i think if you settle this by abortion,i'm pretty sure you will
leave her within a month.trust me.
the psychological trauma will not haunt her alone.it will haunt
you.the next time you try to have sex or something,the fear will
come back.i dunno,maybe it will cause you erectile
dysfunction?
she's afraid.she's vulnerable.she needs you.go be a man.
i'm so dumb i don't even know how to use the quote button,but i
won't be so stupid to think that the abortion will not affect
anyone.and that thimgs will return to normal.
