Marriage is no guarantee for happiness. I thing you are not ready
and still unsure, so why do you even bother. Geylang spiders is a
viable alternative but if you're shy, just let the WuYa approach
you.
Perhaps she has the same idea about you and post in some other
forum saying she's afraid you might go geylang and those WuYa
entice you and you take on a mistress. Or some sexy bitchy office
girl offer up to be your fu.ck buddy or some auntie want to offer
you $ to be satisfy them... whatever the scenario.
Its not happen yet. Dont over analyse. When it happens, it happens.
If not, all this is mental exercise to scare yourself. But then,
bro, its all only you... she has not done anything and you're
already suspecting her. You see TV, Henry Tia was the controlling
husband? Ah, you wanna be like that?