U are very naive, and very sadly mis-informed. there's no need
for any "evidence" for molest. All that is needed is a woman's
accuse to put u behind jail for 24-48 hours. (24 MINIMUM!) Of coz,
that's not the end of it all. 
The way our law works is - u r guilty until proven innocent.
So NEVER put urself in a situation where u are alone with a woman
that u dont know. I never take the lift alone with a woman. In the
MRT i always put out my hands to where everybody can see them, and
make sure no girl is directly in front of me also (to prevent them
accusing me of poking their backside).
I have a friend who went through all this hell during his NS days.
He was an optimistic guy before all this sh1t and end up being a
very broken man. It all happened during one of those holiday
periods and as usual there was a big crowd. A girl suddenly turned
around, grabbed my friend's hands and shouted "molest". He was
taken to the police station where he was - somewhat "tortured" i
would say - for more than 24 hours. I was supposed to be meeting
him that fateful nite and me and my friends were cursing and
swearing why he's late for so long and still dont answer his HP.
Little did we know the sh1t that happened to him.
He called me the next day, asked me to help bail him out. yes...
the NEXT DAY. He was thrown into a prison and was being treated
like a prisoner. Dont believe in the "you get one phone call" sh1t
they always say on TV. It dont work that way in real life. U get
the call as and when the police lets u to. and of
course the police are there to make hell out of ur life. They tried
to threaten my friend, threaten to tell his family, etc. All those
officers there mis-treated him, didnt even give him ONE SIP to
drink. He asked for water and they look at him and walked away.
Many times they would hurl insults at him, swearing at him,
labelling him as a "molester".
After his bail, he was repeatedly asked to go to
the police station for who-knows-what. Just one call, even in late
night, and he has to "report" there. Since he was in NS, his unit
was informed of his case. Imagine all the mental stress he gets
from this. What do you think the people in his camp were
thinking?
I was asked to testify for him, since me and my friends were
supposedly meeting him. It's supposed to help him since if he were
meeting us, he has a reason to be there. The reasoning behind this
is that usually, real molesters will not be meeting someone, they
just go around "hunting" for their prey.
When I was there, i saw abit of how the police was treating the
other "suspects". Just like what my friend described to me. They
were forced to squat, their hands tied with those plastic tie
straps (those that u use to tie up and cant release - need to use
cutter to cut), hands over their heads. They were being kicked
around (not hard kicks), basically being treated like animals
IMO.
The staff sergeant who was taking down my statement begin quite
politely, however, after he found out that i was a sergeant in my
camp, he tried intimidating me in a way, saying that he knows this
so-and-so Colonel in my camp. And his attitude started to be quite
bad from then onwards. I was thinking - wtf is he think he is
doing? Who cares who u know in my camp, I'm not a suspect and get
this type of treatment? I started to get abit frus, also triggered
by what i see around me- how they mis-treat the other suspects in
that room. So I start abit "guai lan" with him, only then he go
mild abit. This goes to show what type of people we have there.
Very bad impression.
For MONTHS, they keep asking my friend to go back to the station.
Sometimes, when he reach there, they say "oh nothing, u can go
back". Other times, he waits for countless hours, then asked to go
home. 
I think they trying to
stress him out mentally, so he would admit to molesting the
girl.
Sometime later, they even asked if he wanted to take a LIE
DETECTOR test. Luckily, another friend of his is working
in the police force and this police friend told him NEVER to take
the Lie detection test. The test is taken by officers - meaning
sergeants and below - and since a lie detection test is never
proven as a 100% accurate, they can always use it to your
disadvantage. Of course during the test u dont know what questions
they will ask, and what will happen to you (or what is being done
to you) so u can imagine what the test "results" can be. They keep
pestering my friend to take the test, and keep threatening him that
the girl is pressing charges, and he is gonna to be in court,
possibly jail and cane terms awaiting him.
The thing is: YOU DONT HAVE TO TAKE THE LIE DETECTION
TEST! Do you think if you are in court the final verdict
will rely alot on the result that proves you are innocent of
molest? Instead, only the opposite is true - if the test proves u
are lying - u get very much -ve points there.
Finally, after months of hell for my friend, the girl dropped
charges. He wasnt really rid of all the stress, since all those
around him look at him with suspicion.
ALL THIS JUST BECAUSE A GIRL SCREAM "MOLEST". No
evidence at all, but still u go thru all this sh1t.
P.S > compare typical sentence for molester, to a typical
sentence of girl lying to police. Even after so many proven cases
of girls lying to police they get molested, nothing is being done.
the penalty is very very minor compared to what the accused
suffered. Some of u might remember the commando molesting the girl
case, he was innocent. Many similar cases appeared after his, and
people were asking for the sentence to be heavier if the victim is
found lying. Sad to sat, til now nothing happened. 
