I fell in love with my gf sister...how!

last SG · 2004-09-07T15:07:28+00:00

woa....when did this falling in love with gf sis topic get into a FALLING OUT with EACH OTHER topic??????????

supercharger SG

You are right! Wink I agree with you.

Also, I was advised like this once by a wise older man... dont have premarital sex.. for xyz reasons but on top of that... should you and her dont get along and you and say the girls sister falls in love... the sex bit with the original sister will complicate matters too much to make it work! I have not grasp the full implications but I can see some of the problems.

Also, when you have been with someone for a long time and getting married with all the usual nervous fears about the future etc and when someone comes along - younger sis or anyone else for that matter - the grass will always look greener! that is for sure one! ask any guy!!! they will at some point ponder about this sort of thing. But a true man will stay with his principles and brain and not follow his Dick.

Even if the above complications dont materialise... think about it... what are the chances of you being able to

a) dissolve the exisiting relationship without any hurts or ill feelins?

b) with the hurts etc... you still have face to go to the same house and meet the younger girl??

c) what makes you think that the sis will accept you? even if she did.. I can tell you that at the back of her mind, she will not be secure. why? bec you left someone to go for her - even if she is persuaded by your colourful words that ya you did it for true love etc - she will always be under the haunting suspicion that you might do that to her in the future too and leave her for another woman since you did it to her older sis! that is the terrible cost of having someone desert you and be receiving a bf/gf under that sort of condition.

d) what about the parents?? yours and hers? what the hell do you thnk they will think of you? what sort of pressure will the younger girl get? even if she is for you... the pressure from parents, older sis and even younger girls friends will crack her!

e) you dont appear to know your own heart. you follow your feelings and that is primarily influenced by the fact that the younger sis is pretty and you lust after her. the feelings is unreliable and if you follow it you will be wrong.

Back to my good old fren. He says that if ever such a thing happen, then if you really want to... you need to dissolve the relationship put some distance and time between you and her and family and after a long time then start over... then there will be a clean break otherwise... all muddled.

So if the younger sis is really that nice... what are the chances that she will be available or be willing to wait (ini view of all the pain possible) for you?

And here is the wisdom about not having pre-marital sex above all the xyz reasons... if the younger girl knows or suspects that you have been banging her sis, what do you think are your chances with her? I'm not sure that sisters like sharing lovers! esp if she is very loving to her older sis and is a decent girl herself??

So basically, since you have come to this stage... better that you sort out your existing relationship and make it healthy through renewal which every relationship has to do every now and then to keep it fresh and going than try and turn your head and eat "return grass"

supercharger SG

... sorry duplicat post

incredible SG

hehehehe.... Mr. Green

Himbo SG

Yah...it's true....even if you break up with ur gf u still will NEVER NEVER EVER have a chance with the sister. Imagine the ensuring complications. So dun waste, tell her abt this forum and ask her to come in here. We will do the rest...

larry_longwei SG

wah lau.. u jo greedy 1.. Shocked

amuletgurl SG

wat again?cannot meh Mr. Green

chihuahua SG

juz marry ur gf den also everyday can see her ma...can do anything u like when ur sis not around... Wink

Devil1976 SG

What do you THINK Question Twisted Evil

798 SG

True True! Laughing

Introduce the busty sis to us, we will do the rest! Mr. Green

decimate SG

gd le.. can double team..

nuchio SG

question : how is the relationship between the sisters?

there is such a thing call sibling rivlary.

i suspect the younger one is manipulating you to get her sister and not interested in you. never, ever underestimate a woman scorned.

if she likes you, let her say or ask her before you make any move. she can turn around and accuse you of coming on to her. that way, she can crush her sister and get rid of you.

as for your g/f - you need to relook your relationship with her. if you can be so easily tempted, how can you live with her for the rest of your life?

dont rush into anything and dont decide anything for now. let time tell you who you really love want to be with.

sorry to remind you and all the guys out there that boobs should not be a deciding factor. it is two lumps of flesh or nowadays, silicon bags.

798 SG

but then the gf is horny and the gf's sis is busty, dun think his stamina going to take it.

leave the sister to me, let me do the wild thing! Twisted Evil

forum_man SG

Hey im glad to see so many kind souls here giving me sound advice, but then until now i also dun know what to do...If u ppl had seen my thread, i mentioned that my gf is a very chio lady, i didnt lie...And her sister takes on her, she is not only super chio, but has a great figure (of course thats not everything), she is also very clingy on me, agree to whatever i say, and very cheerful 19yr old girl...Very strange one, she had a bf too, but whenever in my presence, she tends to turn a cold shoulder to her bf...eg: like playing mahjong, she would pull a chair beside me to watch me play and count my chips for me when her bf is just another player opposite...

Also when she know her sister is by my side, she will not call or sms me one...but once she knew her sis not around, she will like give me a call in the afternoon to pick her up for lunch, then at night sms me those sweet good night messages..

Once even worse, i believe she had a fight with her bf and she asked me out for accompany...and also told me not to tell her sis that she is with me...then the whole night she simply cried and slept onto my laps in my car...next morning she thank me and hug and kissed me say that im better and more caring than her bf...(im serious, not lying)...and she said that she envy her sister that she had me as a bf...but that time i shoved it off thinking that she is much too upset with her quarrel between her and the bf...

Well I just came home, just now she called again to had dinner with me becoz she knew my gf had a company function tonite...her bf called during our dinner and she shut it off...when i send her back, she confessed and said she had feeling for me and kissed me...i didnt know what to do then and said she was drunk and left quickly...went to the hotel to pick up my gf after her function and send her home again...saw her sis back home and she actually called me from her room! In the prescence of my gf...my god!! i was scared stiff...

I off my phone, till now dun even dare to turn it on....this time siao liao la....
COnfirm tomolo her sis will call me again for lunch...no escape liao...tonight cant sleep, have to think of a solution...i loved my gf...and i loved her sis also...
Im really beginning to worry that my gf will find out

'm back SG

u dun desert your gf, giv her to me if u r fickle minded.
i am sure myself and many other guys here are mor loyal than u Mr. Green

blowfish SG

i pity yr gf

KeN3 SG

u gotta decide on 1 soon, or not u might jus end up wif nothin… u jus gotta ask urself who u love more… but lets jus say for parents, dun think they’ll like a son-in-law who jilted 1 of their daughters for another lor…

nightyoung SG

Gosh.. tell your gf... its the best!!!
So when your gf finds out she will not blame you as you tell her the truth already..... i mean you tell her that her sis has been seeing you.. ??

Anyway.. you should not hide anything from your gf.. she will be more happy to know the truth.. and tell her that you love her alot and will never leave her

798 SG

tamade! why does the busty chiobu fallen in love with the wrong person? so unfair! Sad

decimate SG

WHy not u be honest and tell your gf abt it? Then from there the both of you can decide wot to do. I am sure ur gf will be understanding that you are being honest with her. After reading thru, i am suspecting mayb they are testing your loyalty. Or not? LOLz

798 SG

but i think this sister quite young leh (only nineteen), still immature in my view. dun think she understand relationship at this point.

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