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Originally posted by forum_man:
i knew im in deep @##*...but still im enjoying this cherished
moments now...enjoy what u can, tackle whatever may come
later...
Today whole day nv acc my gf sis...becoz my gf whole day stick to
me...but nevertheless i still give her a call once in a while just
to let her feel happy...
This type of underground relation very thrilling, now then i
knw..
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Well... if this whole thing is true then I think many are really
sad for the girls and the family.
Me, I pity you.
why?
It is not bec that you will end up with nothing - that like I said
previously is of no importance.
But by giving in to this trilling undergnd sex ... you will change
(if you have not already changed!). YOu will find it harder and
harder to love be truthful and faithful, no matter how beautiful
and fantastic the girl is 
why? Bec sex is more importantant then love, commitment, fidelity
and faithfulness. So these things means nothing to you anymore. A
girl in your head now is only good for sex, someone for you to
poke. You have become selfish and will exploit any girl
that you fancy just to satisfy your sexual urges.
So how does this impact your future??? your selfishness you will
not allow you to be happy with that lovely and wonderful girl/wife,
you will want more and more underground sex including visiting
Pros! Why? bec like you said.. its so trilling!!
I have never seen a person who cheated live a happy life.. no its
not a curse it just plain reality. They brought the pain and long
term unhappiness on themselves. All the heartaches and relational
damage plus the inability to have a normal loving close and
intimate with their spouse
You do not know what love is and even if
you did you have already lost the real meaning. you have choosen to
focus on yourself and yourself only. You do not want love, you just
want selfish sex. Unfortunately all the cheap sex in the whole
world will never fill and satisfy your longin for love and
intimacy.
The above is just plain and simple psychology. No rocket science.
I've talked to many couples and individuals over the years and
again.... there is no happiness only DEPRESSION. You have never
tasted the joy of suffering from DEPRESSION... then continue to
live this way and one day you just might get to experience the
wonderful joy of DEPRESSION!
So what does all these mean?? Nothing! why? bec you just want
whatever it is that you want regardless of consequences. the future
and consequences means nothing to you. future pain means nothing
bec you have not felt it.
For minutes of fun you choose not to care about the person who
stuck by you does any of these things
bother you??? no! why bec you never loved your gf and definately do
not love the sis... you only lust and love yourself
and you want them around so that you can get cheap sex out of these
girls by exploiting their weakness for you...
so having a place to poke your dick regardless of consequences
seems more important to you so please poke away 
Anyhow, like all things, the longer you are at
it the more difficult it is to change... so congrats... keep
poking!
