Who's fault is it?

Christy SG

Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.

Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.

Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?

Nelstar SG

Scenario. E and A are very far apart.

There is no way to be objective in the first question. Chicken or egg anyone? Cool

wavywave SG

erm.. if im the girl, i would act nothing happen
and avoid meeting that guy anymore
bcos he took advantage on me Neutral

ditzy SG

Their parents fault, shouldn't have given birth to them in the first place. Very Happy

Nelstar SG

Mai lai lah! Mr. Green

thhong22 SG

1) going out with frans, single, attached or even married is nothing wrong....
but she shld protect herself by not getting drunk, n the guy shld not take advantage of the gal when she is drunk....

2) the gal shld not have anything to do with the guy anymore.... don jiu chan bu qing.......

Nelstar SG

Your reply I like!

1) The whole damned world is wrong.

2) Very Xian Dai Hua Nu Xing - I admire!

Wah, your future husband will be a lucky guy!

thhong22 SG

hahhaa... tat's wat i tot lah...
the guy wan responsible so wat? he still got his wife... become mistress wait kena find out oso die...... hahaha
so leave the guy better......... bo taiji
anyway not say u love the guy alot mah.....

FireIce SG

(1)
they shd jus stick to coke or orange juice

(2)
they shd elope to zimbabwe so they have live happily ever after

SnowFlag SG

Q1) both shouldn't go out in the 1st place as it will invite gossip.

Q2) why shd they b together when the guy had raped the woman.

BeEtHoVeN SG

the problem of gossip ....
do u not go out with your frens just because it may invite gossip ??

wavywave SG

;

Laughing

SnowFlag SG

going out with groups of frens is ok, but dating with a married man will invite gossip.

beavan SG

who said it was a date?

Qitai SG

(1) I think this case can report police - this is clearly a rape case.

(2) As above.

If not, I also want to go out and drink with Char Bo liao. So Ho Tan.

Qitai SG

Anyway, if more practical also must Qiao that guy a sum of $$ for compensation, threatening to report police if don't give $$.

And remember to go buy Bi Yun Yao immediately, just in case got ma fun . . . . . . . . . . . .

X-men SG

agreed. nothing wrong with outing out with friends as long as there's a line drawn.

The guy should not take the advantage and spoil the trust the gal has put in him. Worse to take advantage of a drunk gal Evil or Very Mad

Friends who took advantage of you... is NOT yr friend

SGpork SG

Shocked goood.. yeah...girl must learn to protect themself sometimes..

Christy SG

I think sometimes the girl is not in the fault.

storywolf SG

Both !

1) Lady wrong to go out with married man & wrong to get drunk ! Wrong to become the mistress, should just walk away.

2) Guy wrong to go out with another lady when he is married, wrong to take advantage of the lady, wrong to ask he to be his mistress.