Agreed... a load of BS.... What will these desperate hormone
driven ignorant people say next?
Whatever that has been said about one's virginity, whether its from
a personal/religious/emotional/physical perspective, it is still
something precious!
Do not loose it for any reason until you are prepared and ready
emotionally and mentally. The amount of emotional bonding that
takes place will overwelm you. If the basis for the bonding is
cheap sex instead of it being based on a stable solid relationship
fundation such as marriage, the bonding will likely break your
relationship.
Never get pressured into it, never put yourself in a position that
you might be compromised... its not worth it.
As a physiological thing, I guess there would be pain... but I
guess it would be at any age too not just bec one is young or older
etc... since I think its a function of whether you are ready and
comfortable for it with the person you are with... which means that
to be comfortable... you would generally be much older and more
stable in mind and emotion.
Really, if you or anyone else is thinking about it, do reconsider
cos its really something worth keeping and your future partner
(hopefully its with your life long one) will more than appreciate
you for it.
