Muse SG hi all Bar members I have read so many posts on casual ONS with office colleagues and the sort and i have been thinking so here is something i like to share. Actually for men, i think, the thrill is in being able to convince the woman (married or not) to want to and to agree to sex with you. I realise from past personal experience, that i am contented to know that the woman is interested, keen and willing. Sex is not that important, we men can always jerk off if satisfaction and release is all that we want. Sad to say, after all that seduction, i have managed to control myself on three different occasions. i.e. not actually going all the way to bed the woman. Having known that the woman is there wanting, ready and wet. I also think that the common preoccupation by some men with bedding married women or attached women or merely casual acquaintances is because its just an ego trip. To make ourselves feel attractive and wanted that someone else with a mate is willng to cheat and just do it with you. Talk about cheap thrill. what do you people think?
FireIce SG now, thats one quality topic in Bar! but im NOT into cheap thrills. infidelity mus jin zhu long! mus have self-control and dun succumb to temptations which might lead to disastrous consequences or regrets
euphratis SG interesting...but I bag to differ for men (single or married) bedding married woman... maybe married woman (neglected or not) want to feel young & attactive, i.e. if men notice or bed her...she feels want... but then again I may be wrong as how the top process of a man & woman are total opp... many time if you observe in pub there maybe a group of attached ladies...wanting, looking for ONS or an discreet affair.
mercutioz SG It depends on the morality standards of the individual… normally if it’s a one off case as in ONS with a complete stranger, perhaps the guilt factor is easier 2 manage. If it’s ppl ard ur social circle, it’s harder cos the chances of bumping into one another is higher n memory of the sexual tryst will b trigger.
Devil1976 SG The POOR women... Now that ain't very nice to do to the ladies..? Toying with their 'feelings'?
euphratis SG guilt or no guilt.... like mentioned depend on that person moral standards... if he/she lives in a city where almost everyone sleeps to anyone & a virgin is consider a freak....u can image... But then situation differs if it is in a monastery... so a how a person behaves depend on their social circle
beavan SG putting it this way,would you mind to elaborate what kind of society we are here in Singapore? certainly what he has done is supposed to be frowned upon in our mainly conservative society? unless the girls don't mind.
arse-fan SG I wont categorise it as cheap trill, a trill only maybe.....its the trill of doing something different and dangerous and yet not being caught....if caught the consequences is definately not "cheap" as well But it always takes 2 hands to clap....one is looking for a trill and the other looking to be trilled
the.raven SG Originally posted by FireIce: now, thats one quality topic in Bar! damn!! now I dont have any funny things to say in this thread!
shandower SG A participant who is currently single shouldn’t be experiencing guilt anyway. Sex is a basic need. But I do agree that adultery is a no no.
borgkilla SG you a p***y teaser go and seduce ladies and leave em hangin .... not cool at all man, I think that is worse ... leading ladies on then throwing them away when they like u .. tsk tsk an affair is 2 ways so if 2 consenting adults want to be intimate.. so be it if it makes u happy then why not
