Actually, if BAR was meant to discuss about clubbing and
sex-related topics, then the moderators should let it be so.
However, FireIce has time and time again shown that she dislikes
sex-related topics. If she's so unhappy with sex-related topics, I
feel she should either shift the sex-related topics elsewhere or
she should just not be MOD of BAR at all since she dislikes it so
much.
As the moderator, I feel she should be neutral in her own forum
rather than go around dissing everyone who starts a sex-related
thread. Because, once she starts going around dissing people, it
acts as a disincentive for sex-related topics to be put in BAR.
Which defeats the point of why sex-related topics are allocated to
BAR in the first place.
I understand the idea of moderators to close a thread if it is
overly explicit or extreme, but FireIce has been very quick to diss
almost anyone who has started a sex-related topic.
And just because she disses people who start sex-related threads,
there will be those forumites who join in and flame the original
guy just to suck up to the moderator and join in to diss the
person.
There are also those forumites in the BAR that act righteous and
pretend to be morally upright. Because there are girls here, they
pretend to be against all sexual acts yet they themselves crave for
the same things that others have posted about. Just to look good in
front of the girls here.
I'm not saying all who speak up against certain sexual topics are
hypocrites, but there are such people here.
Then there are also those who join in the dissing just for the fun
of it. I must admit, some ppl like Cortez deserved the kind of hate
he did last time, but there are those who are just looking for a
chance to slam others. Doesn't matter if the guy getting slammed
deserves it or not, some just want to go with the flow.