sounds like u are quite new. quickly climb the learning curve.
doubt u are fingering her the way she likes.
since she like touches, do that first, maybe with some massage. if
she allow, fondle her b reasts. even better, lick her 'pu tao'. if
she cannot get high or moan little bit, do not progress. stay at
this stage of petting until u can draw the moans out of her.