Let's do some quick senarios.
Scene 1:
Say you agree to his, erm, request. U guys make a clip together.
After a few months of lovey dovey, u guys fall apart and break up.
Then he decides to blackmail you despite the risks of getting
caught. Eventually he is caught, but you still suffer the shame of
exposure.
Bad, right?
Scene 2:
You refuse his request, which turns out to be a demand, then
metamorphoses into a requirement for a placing in your
relationship. After a heated exchange, you break up.
Sad, but there's other fish in the sea, right?
Scene 3:
You refuse to do the clip, he says alright, it's ok. And you carry
on your unmeaningful lives as per normal.
Damn boring siah~
Scene 4:
You accept his request, he makes the video, he sends copies of it
to his friends at work and all, you get shamed, and he still says
he loves you. That jerk.
Whaddya do when that
happens?
Here's some advice.
Your life is yours to live. Nothing in this world is
actually ours, except our thoughts, emotions, and
decisions.
When something bad happens, don't
look for someone to blame. Don't ask ,"Why ME?" Instead, ask
yourself, "What now?"
