doing it behind your partner's back

sgpure SG

Men and women need to feel desirable, and in order to get this they often need reinforcement from others. It's natural for a man and woman to laugh with each other, touch each other, and to push the boundaries of their conversation a little.

Where is the line? Well, that would be a good discussion. A little dance in a bar, or a little discussion about sex isn't cheating is it? What if you don't mention you're married? What if it leads to a little kissing before you call it a night? Or is full sex required to make it a cheat?

Define a sexual fling.

sgboy2004 SG

just thinking of it is bad enough, let alone the action

Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad

shan_cai SG

Go n die lah!!!

I hate guys who go 4 flings. Cannot control their kuku bird izit? Despo horny guys... Go chop off ur bird better lah. Den no need define sexual fling liao.

De|usi0n SG

but the fact is tat nowadays, if u cannot share, u cannot fall in love..wahahaaa

shan_cai SG

Delusion gor... U dun anyhow lah... U liddat say spoil e market leh...

Blue Stardust SG

Must be those new age movie teach the youngsters …bad thing

sgpure SG

some girls like you hate it, some love it. In a perfect world, a guy marries to the girl he loves, and the girl loves the guy. They make good sex and lives happily forever.

But sad to say, reality is imperfect. There are bound to have disequilibriums in love relationships. Some try to maintain it, while others stray. When 2 individuals in 2 different relationships stray, a disequilibrium occurs and breeds new ground for what we define as a sexual fling. I couldn't die just like that.

De|usi0n SG

share loh.,.. dont share dont play the r/s game....

there are guys and gers out there yearning for a different adventure in othere pple apart from their dw to earth bf/gf.

shan_cai SG

Pui~! I onli saw wat u wrote in e 1st paragraph.

shan_cai SG

There is no such thing as sharin in my relationship... If he dunwan ppl 2 share mi wif him, den make sure he doesnt make mi share hm wif other gers. Or else juz f*ck off...

sgpure SG

You just got to stop living in your own world lady. And don't be rude.

shan_cai SG

I simply hate dis type of guys. Onli noe how 2 spoil relationships.

sgpure SG

dearest shancai, sometimes i really wish there are no bastards in the world. on one condition, there are no bitches also.
how do u categorise yurself?

the.raven SG

ehh dunno leh, I dun even know how to have a deep conversation with a girl, let alone talk about sex with her…then a kiss.

De|usi0n SG

can go deep can liao..who caress…she might be someone else gf anyway

I-like-flings(m) SG

ai yo honey dun angry lah.. i also hate guys that go for flings lor.... mi not gay what why they come jio mi.. wah lau.. chop iff their bird bird better hor?? Mr. Green

Prodigy SG

the most i'd do is to chat up with some ladies (not that i do this often) maybe go dancing or something...

and no, its not dirty dancing...

at the end of the night, we say good bye to each other...without having thoughts like humping her or something Rolling Eyes

and yes, there are some SLUTS out there who just want to be humped... but believe it or not... i rejected Smile

on tenterhooks SG

Hi, i'm curious to know what then is your own definition of a sexual fling? and at which point of it will you consider it an act of infidelity (assuming you're already in a committed relationship)?

spencer99 SG

To me… very very slight flirting is alright. I can also accept it if my partiner flirt slightly. But must not have any intent to bring things to a higher level.

Coffee_O SG

all i can say that it take two to clap so sometimes it not entirely the guys fault. it have alot of factors to consider b4 coming to conclusion of why he went out of rail.

Mr. Green