doing it behind your partner's back

borgkilla SG

a sexual fling is exactly what it is.. having sex with someone other than your significant other..
flirting, sexual discussions are not
cheating is cheating

greyskymorning SG

got demand then got supply. for mi no demand n no supply

deathstar SG

yep. cheating is cheating.

larrenV2.003 SG

Wat i feel is that honesty should come into the picture even if u have flings or u do it at full speed wif others.......tat is wat couples lack nowadays......... Rolling Eyes

larrenV2.003 SG

And juz to add on that mother nature is more like mother FUCKING process that is running the world........the good looking ones kena yaun wang & bau kah liao by the gers & the pai kua ones either got left on the shelf or being made out as a sucker from other ppl..... Rolling Eyes

larrenV2.003 SG

Mad

SumOne SG

Agree with you there, I think a fling involves sleeping with a person. But cheating on one's partner is a different thing and may or may not involve sex.

SumOne SG

People just starting a topic why must ask people go and die? So fierce for what? You kerna cheated on before is it? People also didn't say that he had a fling or he going to have one, anyway, think you being very insensible here. This kind of things do happen, and it's not just guys who get into flings, girls do too. And there are girls who initiate flings.

Your not seeing these things happen doesn't mean it doesn't happen. The world isn't defined by your rules only and the world doesn't bow to you. These things happen and people talk about it so what's the big deal? Why be so arrogant and stuck-up?

sgpure SG

thanks SumOne, glad u understood that i was just trying to stir up an interesting topic that's happening around us all the time and asking for opinions.. not like some bimbo brained individuals who only curse and swear, personifying their skin deep mentality and not gripping hold of the problems in this society's agenda.

Prodigy SG

haha some people are still living in their la-la land Wink

darkelf66 SG

emotions are hard to control ... sexual fling ignites the flames of passion of those that have extinguish... it makes a person feel wanted and maybe for gals feel the love that is maybe lacking in her relationship =)

M©+square SG

Click here - Why People Cheat

Origami SG

Think there r many bros out there who understands why ppl cheat. Lotsa reasons to it but sometimes they r just excuses Mr. Green

I think a fling is when u have some kind of attraction to someone but u din go all the way. Maybe just spending time together more than u should. Cheating would probably mean sex.

But for ladies who despise all these acts by men, take a little time to think. Not all men who cheat or have flings did it intentionally. Sometimes it's becos of frustration n being deprived of attention which may lead to these things.

I've got friends who cheat becos of just being plain horny but I've got friends who r model husbands or bfs but due to insensitivity or frustration from their partner, they succumbed to another woman. Men have needs n feelings too. Just like women. Dat's why both gender cheats. It cannot be avoided n it will exist no matter how we like it or hate it. Just gotta accept it.

Honestly i enjoy the company of women n I get lots of attention from them. My gf stays wif me n she know abt this. But she knows dat I'm not doing anything funny. She knows dat she's not giving me enough attention due to work n she's trying to change her schedule to accomodate me. Dat way I'll have less reasons to go out wif the ladies n spend more time wif her.

I hope this can help some of the ladies understand how some men feel.

shan_cai SG

Im neither a b|tch or a s|ut... I dun go ard seducin other guys or other gers' bf coz i dunwan them 2 do e same 2 mi...

[email protected] SG

There are girls out there who purposely target guys in relationships. They find the act of taking someone else's bf away from them and breaking up their r/s a sign of superiority over the other gal. I can personally vouch for it because i have frenz like tat and I myself had a few encounters.

Some gals find another guy in a relationship extremely attractive. And they feel if they can actually cause a r/s to sour and win the guy over, it proves they are better than his prev. gf. And i have female frenz despite knowing full well that i have a gf persist in "courting" me asking me to accompany them to all sorts of occasions and seizing and chance to get intimate. saying things like "no strings attached", just f*ck buddies and a host of other social issues

Just another point of view to add to the thread. And no i declined them all nicely, despite how tempting the proposition might be. Cool

sgpure SG

That's a good enough answer.

JeweL81 SG

i wonder if pple ever really know the marriage vow and take it seriously…

M©+square SG

They do at that moment.
They don't after that moment.

Dj_Shadow SG

I hope that i will able to take my marriage vow seriously my whole life when i marry... Very Happy

shan_cai SG

THANK YOU.

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