well u've fu.cked up on two occasions then...
i'm asian and i've spent more than half my life in an angmoh
country. and i can sweet talk, just ask a few around here. even if
i hadn't spend time overseas, i know how to talk to my women and
make them fly.
secondly, it's "assumption is the mother of all fu.ck ups" as
quoted by steven seagal in the movie under seige.