Aiyooo...I feel for you...anyway, you can learn from this, guys
who seem over zealous like 'time is running out' or theres no time
to waste kind, just want one thing from you lah. Esp guys who r
thick skinned lol.
If you go tell the guy to go slow and be 'friends' and go on dates
first, then he is completely FINE with that, then should be ok. If
he prefers not, and go right to the sex part in a few weeks/months,
then you know liao. Anyway, best thing is dun do anything til after
a year lah, hanky panky is ok, just not sex; realising its the 21st
century and many ppl dun believe in sex after marriage 
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But yeah, some guys are complete A'holes. But I think the majority
are not lah, like me and some fellas here in the forum.
tio bo, guys?? 
