some problems

last SG · 2004-05-23T17:05:07+00:00

please lah be more constructive like tat how can got anymore ways onot

Goh Cheok Tong SG

hello forum people recently i got this girl called me up she rejected me about 5 yrs ago so out of the blue she call me up and chat she got bf liao but why still call me up Rolling Eyes can anyone tell me but frankly speaking i still like her lah but last time after the recjection i deleted all her no and have totally forgotten about her and now she call me again is she coming back to break my heart or what like prove that there is still a moron who likes her i really want to forget all about her but why she call me.... i am confused Crying or Very sad see now about 3 days liao she didn't call me make me still waiting for her phone call...should i call her and tell her i still love her but remember she got bf liao that's what she told me.i scare later kena reject again i cannot take it

Goh Cheok Tong SG

any love expert here can tell me what can i do please

sgboy2004 SG

u think too much liao lah Cheok Tong, maybe she just called to say "hi"...a courtesy call nia lah

So dun reveal anything abt your liking for her...

Good luck to u

Mr. Green

Goh Cheok Tong SG

but really or not 5 yrears neber call then call just to say hi Rolling Eyes a bit weird leh..can any girls help to contribute because i need to know how you girls think.TX

sgpure SG

Could have quite a number of possibilities.. these r just my personal comments so dun condemn me straight away.

1. reason y she rejected u 5 yrs ago was she wanted to test u whether u were sincere. But after 5 yrs of waiting, she finally gave up and got herself a new bf. She calls to inform u that u're useless and its too late now.

2. Vice versa. She may be hinting to u that its ur last chance to strike before she gets married to the new bf.

3. reason simple: She is spiking at u. ha ha ha. full stop.

4. reason she just called up to catch up with a long lost friend.

F.O.S SG

Formular:

1) the more you think of her you lost her
2) you call her you lost her
3) you tell her , you also lost her
4) take her call and tell like normal friend
5) find out what she want first
6) make her feel that you already have gf too of some one you like which is not her
7) make her feel that the one you love is better than her
Cool make her complaint to you that her bf is not good, don't complaint her bf, but indirctly tell her you won't face this kind of problem.

Enough? if not enough buy me a drink I give you 50% of my success. Razz

Goh Cheok Tong SG

i hope it's number 2 but if it's no 2 how to tell her later pai seh kena reject again
ps; she told me she got bf 1 year plus liao

F.O.S SG

I totally agree Mr. Green

jusgal SG

1) she may like u but already got bf and dunno whether to take risks or not. they may be together for some time liao

2) she dunno wat she want exactly, maybe u have something say character which her bf may lacks.

3) she just wanna feel tat there are a lot guys courting her. ( taht she in demands)

4) she may really dun like u and want u to leave her alone by telling u she is attached. for all u know she not

sgpure SG

well simple formulae...
if u dun ask, u will never find out.
are u really dat paranoiac of losing ur ego? perhaps u've only 1 chance like this in ur whole life. u got to face it like a man brudder!

De|usi0n SG

she wants sex from u man.

Goh Cheok Tong SG

staright forward question- should i sms to her saying these 5 yrs i still love you and have been waiting for you.I really can’t forget her she admit before she likes me but that time i don’t like her she hinting me 5 years ago she looking for bf but i introduced her to other boys and one day i realised i fallen for her already and i told her then she rejected me this is my biggest regret in my life.she is hinting me all along she wants me to be her bf but it’s too late i realiosed it too late

sgpure SG

let her read this msg. she'll b touched if she still loves u. all the best.

Goh Cheok Tong SG

she told me she got bf liao and has been going steady for 1.5 yrs so i don't know what is her main reason for calling me....could it be she got no bf then hinting me again?

F.O.S SG

But she has a bf now, if you do this and she accept it are you indirectly plan a road for yourself that next time she like another person she can just leave you?

if she hint you this time, just hint her back "you got bf already, if you don't have I will lor, anyway I am single wat?"

But if you already have a gf, you better go "fly Kite" , you are hurting her bf, and your gf just becos you like her?

Goh Cheok Tong SG

say what you like maybe say i old fashion i am still single because up to now she is the only girl i like and i am still waiting for her all these while.if she ask or hint me to be her bf i will agree in a heartbeat

SGpork SG

Rolling Eyes

SGpork SG

Rolling Eyes

F.O.S SG

I am not laughing at you, what is there to laugh where I myself been through your shoe?

Harsh make you lost her easily, believe it or not up to you.

Goh Cheok Tong SG

don't be angry lah fos mi don't mean it.so how did u deal your situation.Haste make me lose her can tell me why?