Baby b4 marriage

cooleo SG

Anyone here has experience of having a baby first b4 marriage or has seen couples who has gone thru that?

No personal expereince to share, just curious.

donjng SG

Those shotgun marriages… Few lasted as most of them are quite young…

FireIce SG

got some frens shotgun loh.........

quite common nowadays lah..........

cooleo SG

Come to think bout it, i do have one or two frds who has gone thru shotgun marriage. In fact one of my platoon mate in my unit was aleady a father of a 2 year old kd. Not bad la, he gets to go back earlier than us and get more lax stuff to do.

donjng SG

Its tough being a single mum in sg!
Have to endure all the sacastism as well as the gossips...
Thats why, many have no choice but to marry the father of their unborn child, without having knowing them better...
Thats why a lot of shotgun marriages ended up as a point in the statistics of divorce rates!

beavan SG

wow,i mean isn't the responsibility coming abit too early for him..i tend to think that guys only really become men in NS

cooleo SG

Well he's definitely more mature in thinking than fellow army mates. Can't really say exactly why, but from the way he speaks and thinks, paretnhood does make one grow up. But i kinda pity him, getting tied down with a family without even achieving anything in career or academic areas first.

oh_papillon SG

U think u really Tom Cruise ah? Rolling Eyes Maybe ur gals are telling 10 other men tat they are carrying their child too! Its a common excuse for gals to give esp when they want to ditch the guys but dunno wat to say.

ditzy SG

If get engaged then have a baby, I think its fine. Coz you can get ROMed in 1927, have a baby in 1928 and hold your wedding ceremony in 1932. So marriage is quite an ambiguous term these days. Marriage = ROMed?

ditzy SG

One more thing, baby as in baby borned or as in pregnant with baby?

zhaozhilong SG

Originally posted by donjng:
Its tough being a single mum in sg!
Have to endure all the sacastism as well as the gossips...
Thats why, many have [b]no choice but to marry the father of their unborn child, without having knowing them better...
Thats why a lot of shotgun marriages ended up as a point in the statistics of divorce rates!
[/b]

No choice? Every pregnant girl had a choice, unless it was sex against her will.

drowssap_123 SG

Well, come to think of it, Allan Wu and Wond Lilin might have did it b4 getting married

spumkins SG

Ex-gf. Shes 25 this year. Her kids in primary 3.
You go do ur maths. It wasnt easy for her. Quite
a few fellas "ran away" the moment she tells
them abt her kid.

Fortunately, she met this fella recently and they
are gonna ROM soon. So for u guys out there,
"Put on the fucking condom!!" Cool

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Imperfect SG

in the eyse of the law... Marriage = ROMed...

donjng SG

Well, I beg to differ...
Especially involving cases with teenagers... Most of them have sex just for the fun of it, or plainly for the sake of curosity, or just because their bfs wanted it... These are the people who ain't ready for sex, the implications behind it, the complications that follow it..
As for older people, I have nothing to say about them...

ultra_ray SG

they got married in dec, n this mth she is 4mths pregant...

cooleo SG

If you have a gf as gorgeous like Wong Li Lin, i'm sure u buay tahan until ROM one la. Very Happy

NeonTetra SG

springtime SG

Just a thought....

In a situation where true love exist but couple is unable to get married like in a situation where the girl is a mistress or star crossed lovers or something.....

guys: will you want to father your Gf's child?

girls: will you agree to father your bf's child ?

WrX_STi SG

a few of my fren shotgun liaoz... in de end get married but a few years down the road oso divorce..

but remarried again.. Laughing