Originally posted by SmallPanda:
Lets get the straight, [b]he did the right thing. She
overreacted like so many posters in this topic did either through
instinct or stupidity and slapped him, and even that is an
understatement. Maybe it was just a little slap, no big deal right?
But its the principle. Next time she will think it is OK to him for
any minor dispute. But what is done is done. It is now HIS decision
what he wants to do with his life. He now has the moral high ground
and he should realise that and all the power that comes with
it.[/b]
what about her principle?
okay, i'll make an example. maybe abit harsh but i do hope you get
the meaning of mine..
man fu*k a woman and pushed her away after he shoot~(girl initiates
it)
when he tell his wife.. u mean he did the right thing?
yes he did the right thing by telling the truth. but this can be
avoid okay
the girl initiates the kiss yes i know, but he didn't stop when the
lady's coming up to him and kiss him, and only did he stop when he
starts to think of his wife. this is the right thing?
its not about over reacting, you may be siding with ding but you
get all these wrong.
yeah i know im biased to him in previous post i know im wrong to
dis him and hurt him~ since he's already apologise to his wife. he
will make a good husband
what i feel is that your doing the same thing now just as i've
done~
talk about principle, everybody's got it
slap in the face means everything? means you can simply giving up
your marriage and a pregnant wife?
its not a little slap, its a slap to show him that what he did is
wrong and he deserve it, but after the slap, his wife could
actually forgive him and didn't even think of divorce, he got his
principle back as he deserve what he did and now a honest and
faithful husband
what if she don't give him a slap and just telling him 'well hubby,
everything's alright~' more guilty he will feel. ask him about
this, im sure he will definitely feel guilty all his life
and as what the Bear says his child will be proud of him.
actually, there will always be a 'scar' in his wife okay? and im
proud of him that he could actually admit and confess everything to
his wife. now he's starting a happy threesome life.
his decision already be made clear, he chose to ask for forgiveness
and want a happy life with his family
next time his wife will feel that it will be OK for any minor
disputes? ok let me ask you, your saying this is all just minor, so
if ding feel its just minor dispute and he did it always and
confess to her always, you will always find it a right thing and
feel proud of him?
its the moral instinct to every human. okay, sorry for any flames
or whatever rude words i've said and used..
its just argument and thats all. hope you won't mind 
