So I get to know this gal from a one night stand. After a while,
we become friend. We made it very clear to each other there is
nothing special going on. Since then I have left for study for 2
years, but I still keep in touch with her. At that time, she had
been into 2 failed relationships. Well now she's single and free.
So I'm coming back soon. She's eager to see me again (as friend as
she made it clearly). There is some talk about doing it again with
her, yes I like it, but there is part of me feelin guilty about it
because I'm not even sure if she can do it without getting
expecting something (like relationship). I told her about it, that
I don't want to get into relationship with her (because I don't
love her), but she says its fine, and we can still do it together
for the sake of 'experience'.
Is it possible that a gal friend can have sex with a guy friend,
without getting emotional about it (ie the girl expecting something
from the guy she is doing it)?
Her offer is tempting, sure I like the idea of doing it with her
for the sake of fun, but if she's trying to expect more from me,
I'm not going to do it. And yes, I have made it clear to her that
about that and she assures me that it won't happen. Can I really
believe what she is saying?
