From my personal experience, it seems that u don't need to be
handsome to be chosen, but pretty to be selected.
Most women I know just want to find a good man, but certain
physical attributes like height do kick in, else he doesn't need to
be a pretty boy.
For guys, even though they kept on saying looks doesn't matter, to
a certain extent, it does. The only question is how many %, that's
all.