help? please help? help me?

epImetheus SG

Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
what are the pros & cons of the consequences of doing so & not doing so?
.. Embarassed

FireIce SG

money bery sensitive.....will he return and when?

next....u are partly encouraging the killing of an innocent life......

harryryan SG

better not ya.... they might not be able to return e money n if anything happens in the operation ...n e gal might wanna keep e bb wat..so better not be kpo in such matters....
important fact:e bb has e rite to live.

xian89 SG

ur friend so careless? why she din ask bf for $$ but u. Or issit tat u r the culprit?

www SG

i dont think so.

Bochupi SG

as a fren, i'll help but morally it's wrong lor...so in the end I'll not lend lor. Hate the idea of abortion...

xian89 SG

ur friend so careless? why she din ask bf for $$ but u. Or issit tat u r the culprit?

xian89 SG

ur friend so careless? why she din ask bf for $$ but u. Or issit tat u r the culprit?

epImetheus SG

if i do not lend the money, he might be forced to marry his gf because of it.
if i lend him, i know that i can get the full amount back but he might not learn to be responsible for his actions.

how leh? Confused

FireIce SG

why u say is "forced"?
he oso responsible for it leh

nightyoung SG

I feel that one should be responsible for his own actions..
Lend him the money for the wedding la

Its better Smile

www SG

$3.85 and $500.

he chose the latter.

epImetheus SG

i'm not the culprit. anyway, it's up to you to believe or not. Neutral
firstly, my friend's gf is his gf, not my friend. just 'hi & bye' whenever i meet her.
2ndly, she didn't ask me. my friend asked me.
3rdly, i don't ask about my friends' sexual life(or the usage of condoms).
4th, i do not know whether it is true or not. just knew it over the phone less than 1 hour ago.

ditzy SG

A fren of mine borrowed from me to lend money to his ex for an abortion. He still owes me big time coz he says his ex dissappeared and can’t get the money back. Duh.

epImetheus SG

then in that case, i might as well give them a big red packet on their wedding + a wedding gift(baby cot....etc)

epImetheus SG

1stly, it's his own words. just repeating it only.
2ndly, because if he wants a marriage now, he would not have called me & asked me to lend him money.
logical?

epImetheus SG

please help then.
what reasons made you lend him in the 1st place(not taking consideration whether the money is returned)?
friendship , helpfulness or compassion?

weidev SG

Laughing

weidev SG

say u no money lor...
i won lend... cos it is time for him to learn bout responsibility...

BrUtUs SG

wont lend, cos lend him n u wont get ur $$$ back... force him to go to his parents or even hers to solve the problem... then tat way he will b more responsible,,,