I mean...from the ppl i've met...let's say that most of
them(guys) will be rather proud that they lose their V(In actual
fact..they're proud that they actually have sex with that girl,
this girl...blah blah blah)...they'll actually discuss with their
friends...when discussing with frens abt such a topic..do you think
they feel ashamed? Guess not... 
Oops....btw...think i've type the wrong spelling..shameful instead
of ashamed...pai seh... 