usually my friends r very "zi dong" one, if let's say they see
my gf's got big boobs, or can see deep cleavage, they wont say out
one...
this is call respect.
if anyone of them "buay zi dong" and juz say out w/o going thru his
own brains, i will not scold them or get angry. i will say
something else abt his gf as well, juz to let him feel how is it
like when friends say something like this abt ur gf.