think most lesbians are together more for the love for each
other rather than sex lah, but i donno about gays. my ex used to be
a lesbian b4 she knows me and what the impression she gave me is
that they are more comfortable with female cause of some bad
experience with man, and they can relate better to each other than
talking to man cause sometime we'll just laugh it off as simple
stuff which to them is important. There was a hk movie abt women
during this year's filmfest and a part of the show was about
lesbians. women nowadays are more independent and they dont really
need guys to feel good abt themself. they can caress each other in
bed whole day w/o sex and they'll still be happy, they can go
anywhere together, even to the toilet. There was a report of some
lesbians whose periods falls on the same date after a lengthy time
together so they'll know each other's pain. Think what they want is
someone who really knows how to care for a women and also
understand them lor. 
