I guess it's normal for guys (girls too?) to have that kind of
urges. To look at zao gengs, to fantasize, to surf porn, things
like that.
But have you ever made an attempt to control that temptation
before? Things like, notice a zao geng incident but look away
promptly or trying not to masturbate?
Girls, if u know a guy who do that, will you think he's just being
silly or do you think it's something respectable? 
