how long have u been sexually active with her? many girls need
to have total trust in the guy, b4 they will let u get down there.
they'd be willing to have sex, or give u oral sex, but performing
oral sex on them would be a no-no.
don't force her, but slowly get her to be comfortable with you. one
thing, if u let it drag too long, it could be "written in stone"
that you never do oral sex on her, so why all of a sudden u want to
do. that's the problem with boring sex after many years, and they
"myth" that married couples don't have sex as often as unmarried
ones.. mauhahahahha..
