will u sign a pledge to remain a virgin till marriage?

last SG · 2003-12-11T18:33:27+00:00

some ppl nvr sign but still keep their virginity b4 marriage while some who signed it may lose theirs the next day... my point is whether to sign or not doe...

Coco_Coco SG

hey… not sure if anyone has discussed this here before… but recently there has been a report on a people signing a pledge to remain virgins till they are married. it is initiated by Focus On The Family Singapore (FOTF), a Christian charity organisation. will u sign or not sign it? why and why not? any opinions???

shibuya SG

yah i read about it too. think it’s associated with some church and they are targetting at sec sch students using peer pressure as a tactic. but what’s the point really? having pre-marital sex doesn’t determine 1 person is good or evil. as long as the couple is willing to take positive responsiblity for their own actions then tink should be fine…........

ditzy SG

I would consider.

MooKu SG

Thing is, alot of kids nowadays who are involved in such things are too young to know what responsibilities come with the consequences.

Using peer pressure may not be a bad thing, especially when all other methods used to discourage premarital sex among teens fail.. but I don't think need to sign pledge bah? It's after all a personal kind of promise, and it's not like signing a pledge is definitely going to keep the person faithful to what the pledge says... So long as you keep that promise to yourself in mind...

cagelee131 SG

my group of frens didnt have to sign one ---we are all virgins till marriage...and we are proud of that.

young adult these days are too liberal ...

www SG

no... when its time to lose it, lose it.

anyway, its not as if a pledge cant be broken. Twisted Evil

applesweetgirl SG

the pledge thingy is so lame.

X-men SG

sign or not sign will not necessary mean that you will stick to the pledge. It only works as a reminder.

But I admire those who did keep to the pledge.

You can be a non virgin anytime but you cant be a virgin again once you lost it.

dumbdumb! SG

not only churches la.. though the teachers are christians.. muslim teachers are applying this oso. i think its a good movement.

i mean all the teachers do is show the consequences, and show interviews of ppl regreting their decisions, hear their lifestory.

showing the students the reality of it, that no protection is totally 100% safe, it only takes 1% to make it a risky gamble.

you could be the unlucky 1%

what then? to abort is to kill. and blood is on your hands, on your conscience.

no one is saying sex is wrong and evil, and shouldn't hv sex.. just reserve urself for the one u marry and love, that way.. not much can go wrong. at least there is a feeling of security for both parties.

i signed it. no peer pressure. cuz i was the first to stand up Mr. Green

anytime i want, i can be like u all.. but u can never again be someone like me. Wink

stoner SG

the pledge serves as an external control for the weak minded who has no ability to control their own body/mind without assistance from an external source.....

If u wanna be a virgin then be lar ,,, why need some pledge thing to bind u to it??? so stupid . Rolling Eyes

dumbdumb! SG

control is everywhere. even when u listen to media, u are being controlled, that being a certain way is cool, or certain dressing is cool, now hair is in, last time hair is out.. blah blah.. we are all being controlled, by some factor. why not for a good thing.

its not smth that harms u anyway.

like i said, not everyone will keep to the pledge. its just a reminder. something you choose to do, and honorbound to keep

jUsSstin SG

Spot on.
Just do it if you really love that person or you feel it's worth it for him !

Churra SG

x 2.

bjork SG

x2 Twisted Evil

FireIce SG

why mus human relationship be governed by a piece of paper?

LeftFoot SG

Where is this place?? Bar is for ADULTS.. And we as adults can't even decide whether we wanna stay as virgin or not is up to ourselves.. If we really need to sign a pledge to stay virgin, its kinda lame.. I make pledge for u to sign then i make sure u stay virgin.. Twisted Evil

tibirg SG

say u r still a virgin and ur parents keep reminding u abt keeping "it" till marriage...i think u'd probably be towards the pledge thingy and sign it.
but at the end of the day, if u somehow reach the point of no return, would u even recall that u have actually signed that piece of paper u kept in ur wallet?
if u wanna be a virgin till marriage, u gotta hav self control. sign or not sign the pledge, doesnt do much help...

the Bear SG

what's the running gag about this?

oops!! too late! Twisted Evil

oceanic SG

saw this on e newspaper...

i might consider...

loneryu00 SG

Wat for I sign it if I can control it? If I dun sign, does dat mean I dun have da moral ethics or education to keep myself in check? Does dat mean I will be labeled as "no moral sense" or watsoever?

IN MY VIEW, signing da pledge doesnt juz mean U have high moral ethics & keep yrself a virgin. It only tells U (or me if U dun believe) dat U r insecure abt it & needs authenic credible PROOF to keep U in check.

If U tink virginity is IMPT AND have da moral integrity & discipline, U dun need to sign anything to proclaim U CAN & WILL keep being a virgin til then...

I not saeing those not virgin r morally loose. Dats a load of crap. Its in each & every1 of US to learn & decide & accept wat "moral" is. Every1 has diff views of "morality" & dats 1 of da reasons Y "moral ethics" cannot be generalised into such a stereotyped pattern.

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