It's definitely not fair that he'll die and leave her...harsh
fact of life. But if she's marrying someone else to have long term
security and not cherishing any moment of it, then she'll be even
more miserable!
Getting married to a healthy person does not guarantee long term
security, the spouse may meet an accident the very next day and
die......it's not predictable! In many instances, the spouse may
just decide one day that this marriage is not working for him and
wants out....There are so many different scenarios of how things
will happen.
I'll rather cherish what I have now, then to keep looking out for
the unknown, hoping that it'll bring me happiness....
It's definitely difficult for the guy to allow her to go through
with it, but I think even though is it heart wrenching, they should
cherish whatever time they have left with each other and she'll
have memories to last her a lifetime.....
