what's that cliche?
a woman will have sex to feel "loved"
a man will offer "love" to have sex...
generalisation isn't it?
a man who is in love with a woman will give his right arm just to
make her happy...
the hard part is to find that man... however, he's "safe" and not
attractive to many out there... what they say? nan ren bu huai, nu
ren bu ai?
ladies, if you think that way, do some soul-searching first?
there are many who love their womenfolk totally, yet are
rejected..
figure out what you want... if you find that "humdrum guy" who
loves you, and you love him, learn to cherish him when you find him
and not cast him aside...
then there will never be just sex anymore, it'll be lovemaking..
with true love 
