the culture difference i think still ok, for me the main thing
is distance.
someone (from this forum incidentally, dunno if he posts anymore)
asked me, would u rather know in ur heart that both are truly and
mutually in love and this love spans across thousands of kilometres
OR be (physically) together but never knowing wat the other party
feels?
u know wat my ans was? i want the good from BOTH parts.. the love,
and the proximity. u know why? becos i CAN have both.
i'm just being fair to myself, and to the other party, whoever she
may be.