R we that open minded???

^MaRcUs^ SG

Guys, You can say 1001 times that u luv her and so on...
but what if she tell you one fine day that..
1) she's being rape before /
2) she have slept with one of ur close friend before/
3) she used to sleep around.....
will u still tell her: "I Luv U dear, no matter what"......or...
"well, actually the two of us really cannot click together"
keke..what will u do?
and Girls, same thing happened to u....
what will ur reaction be? (of coz ur bf cannot be raped hor..take it he raped someone be4...2) and 3) same)
keke Laughing

the Bear SG

love is.. without reason..

if you cannot accept her the way she is, you DO NOT love her...

simple as that..

dumbdumb! SG

good question.. honestly i would be shocked. and honestly? i duno what will my reaction. i cannot simply say "love without reason" and all that bull. i doubt anyone would be calm straight away and take it like nothing happen. that isn't love, thats blindness. maybe true love, would consider it, think things thru, if the gal/guy regrets it, turn over a new leaf, looks over the past, and move on. thats a diff issue. not simply just "dear... i slept with your best friend" "so? i still love you, i don't care" thats a friggin lie. lol no one would be calm straight away.

dumbdumb! SG

i dun agree with u totally. love has always a reason. u love someone, because she looks cute, looks chio, has good attitute, basically. appeals to u in some way. if love is without a reason, would u fall in love with a totally screwed up attitute person, with the face of an elephant blah blah?

M©+square SG

You may be shocked if there is such person. Cool

dumbdumb! SG

quote me a fellow.

i wun say that you love without a reason.. but more like u cannot put the reasons into words, or u may not even realise it, so u simply say no reason for this love. but love always have a reason.

makeorbreak SG

I don't agree with the "love without reason" rubbish.

There are always reasons behind everything.

dumbdumb! SG

thats what i say! Mr. Green

angrynor SG

guess if she is raped... cannot help it lor... but will accept.
but sleep with my close friends? will be disappointed. see how lor
erm... Sleep around? Lets go for medical check up!~ Laughing

dinga78 SG

In the heat of love, you may be able to decieve yourself that you are really able to accept the past.

Please think what will happen when you do not feel the intensity of love anymore. I believe thats how most quarreles in a relationship are started, and thats why these stuff come to an end.

So maybe you should cool off first and think logically under "neutral" conditions and see if you are able to accept it or not.

the Bear SG

then what all you have is not love... love is unconditional...

what you all have are conditions...

is it love then?

dinga78 SG

It seems to me that its more like a reason that defies all logic and you cannot accept the fact that your brain is actually telling you to do otherwise.

Thats why its termed as "love without reason". More accurately, its self deception.

duotiga83 SG

how open we want? Rolling Eyes

dumbdumb! SG

love is never unconditional.

not human love anyway.

besides read my post again

can u honestly say u can do what u say? talking is easier than doing brother..

i doubt any sane person who is in balance with logic and emotion will be calm when shiatz happen. Confused

the Bear SG

love is unconditional...

otherwise, it's trade..

"honey, i slept with your best friend"

"goodbye.. i can never be with you again.. but i will always love you.."

love... has reasons reason can never understand

Christy SG

1) she's being rape before /

Ans: I think the guy will just dump her.

2) she have slept with one of ur close friend before/

Ans: He will dump her

3) she used to sleep around.....

Ans: Think most people fool around often now.

dumbdumb! SG

love IS a trade, you love someone because there is something in that person that appeals to you, and you feel good when the same love is given back.

if not its called one sided love, and that kinda shiat always ends bad.

human love is never unconditional. if you think that is even remotely possible, its really silly. even one sided love, how long can it last? 1 year before you lose hope and interest? love is a trade. crudely put.

now you are contradicting yourself homie, first you say love is without reason, now you say love has reason, so which do you want?

dumbdumb! SG

rape.. is a complicating issue... Sad

firstly.. it would be hard in a relationship cuz the scar will still hurt everyone in the relationship, she would be withdrawn, fearful to be close to anyone..

takes time to heal.. thats why.. fcukin rapists ought to be given a heavy sentence.. death is too cheap. torture sounds better.. would i be too evil if i say it this way?

as for dumping her cuz she was raped.. i duno.. i feel tts abit extreme.. cause it ain't her fault.. i guess u meant that due to the complication that comes after the guy cannot take it?

Evil Clown SG

dumbdumb! SG

ok those pics are dumb.. i mean.. wtf? do you do that all the time huh? you some special headcase goin down or smth my f00? Confused Rolling Eyes