I had a discussion with a close guy friend recently and we were
talking abt this issue on relationship sex and marriage..
He highlighted some of his woes to me and I don't know if this will
apply to the majority of couples in Singapore (those married and
contemplating marriage)
Basically it goes like this, my friend being a typical guy tend to
place a bit emphasis on the phycial aspect of a relationship (i.e.
sex) but him and his gf intend to keep the full thing til after
marriage. From what was said, I guess he is worried that his gf is
not someone who actively seeks out the physical aspect of a loving
relationship more than him. He is saying that the girl really don't
like the idea of actually "doing it" so to him he already foresee a
problem already. But the fact is that he is really in love with
this one and really hope they do get married, but the nagging worry
for him is this area of physical intimacy being too low for his
liking and which he thinks may see him "jumping ship" and he really
don't want it that way.
So I was wondering that at least he is capable of forseeing himself
straying at this point.
In cases like this, is there a way out for him and the girl? They
love each other a lot but sometimes as they have not really
explored with this forbidden fruit. Its hard to say what will come
and what will not.
