Not that I'm shallow or anything, but I believe the lady's looks
plays a part as well. Went clubbing last week with my friends. Was
dancing with my friends when I turned around and saw this lady
smiling at me and coming up beside me to dance. I would have (the
word used is would) chatted up with her if she was stunning, but I
didn't. Guess why 
(Before I start getting flamed by forumnites thinking that I'm a
self proclaimed narcisist, I shall assure everyone that I'm not and
never will be one. All these things happen only because of 1
reason, that is, I'm confident of myself
. Well, maybe the dark lighting played a part too, hmm...
)