uhh.. guys, don't flame Rox... it isn't you who has to live with
this decision... it's him and his girl...
anyway, hiding all that from her folks isn't going to help...
and frankly, i don't know what you can do, apart from finding a
childless couple
if it costs the life which both of you made to teach you anything,
learn it and remember it all your lives! it is a lesson paid for in
blood...
and that, itself, may be worse than any flames denizens of the
forum can point at Rox...