Hi all, Let me tell U guys my story.... 4 years ago, when I just
graduated and just step out to the industry to work for just few
months, I realized my GF is pregnant. We're together for 10 years
and just ROM then. We've not much savings for marriage. Coupled
with fears of telling our parents about this almost made me abort
the child. My GF says no and we finally decided to face it. We told
our parents and siblings and surprising, they're all very
supportive and most willing to lend us money to tide us through.
With their encouragment, we decided even more to keep our child and
of course we've now few big obstacles to cross - (1) prepare
marriage which is a race against time cos her stomach is getting
bigger each day. (2) saving for marriage and later for the child's
delivery (3) saving for buying flat later on and renovations (4)
saving for child's expenditure after he is born like diapers and
nanny, etc. All these are pressure in front of us that we're
goingto face.....
sorry guys... will continue tomorrow cos need to fetch my wife now
