Baically your post sums up all the oxymorons, delusions and
pessimistic "what ifs" for supporting abortion.
So you mean to say killing the baby is a lot easier because the
parents don't have to go through the pain of giving her baby away.
Oohhh... that sure is selfless... 
THAT IS INSANE REASONING!
If you don't want the baby and can't take care of it, 20,000
couples who are childless and want to adopt a year can.
Rox, listen to yourself, you are trying to justify murder with lame
reasons, saying it's for the baby's good, it for your girlfriend's
good... it is absurb, snap out of it and do the right thing, don't
let your child end up in a black plastic bag in the garbage dump of
a clinic.
I tell you, if you go through with this, you can complete your
studies, get a job and do whatever you want, but your future has
already been ruined because you have had blood on your hands that
cannot be washed off, blood that is of your own child's. Everytime
you see young children, an empty swing swinging in the playground
in the breeze, you will be haunted.
