Now Now Now, i can summarise and say
that theres no right and wrong in many of the things u mentioned
and also in r.s i dun think either party should put the blame on
each other or themselves. its juz being mutual at times. theres
bound to haf ups and downs and i noe many of us only wanna see the
ups. but many dun understand that the downs could be a turning
point in our life. it helps one to improve alot and actually make
us a better person in handling any situations but sad to say
majority sees the down as something demoralising and many turns to
depression, suicide or even dumping away their future ahead of
them. In ur case, i cannot give u 100% guarantee that ur gal is
already thinking of leaving u and gave u all the possible ugly
reasons but no other more sensible reasons (maybe she did tell u
more sensible reasons but u din tell us here though). And u din say
she told u she dun love u anymore. We cannot rule out the
possibility shes fallen in love wif another men whos more practical
in life and is more matured in thinking and further can provide her
a better life, STILL we cannot rule out the possibility she wanna u
to change and hopefully for the better and shes keeping herself for
u till u had shown changes finally she will come back to ya? of coz
by the end of the day maybe u had found a better gal we shall leave
tt aside yeah? for now u juz look ahead of ya see wats to be
changed and try again to reconstruct ur life. I understand its not
easy to get a job now but at least a PT job can get u some money
for survivor. unlike me i am on NPL and yet i cannot get a job
outside coz not many ppl would dare to employ workers wifout CPF.
GOod luck to ya and hopefully in ur next post u could post
something much more positively dude! (i noe abit too long winded
but suddenly i tot of ur situation the same as a fren of
mine)
