Pardon me for using ur post as reference.
I am not encouraging anyone to do such things, nor am I trying to
say such acts is right or wrong. What I wanna get across is the
fact that human make mistakes, and in a true serious relationship,
if both parties really love each other, then running away from
problems ain't a solution at all.
Relationships is never perfect and bound to have problems, issues
that both parties need to face together, be it juz a BGR or
Marriage. Relationships ain't like those fairy tales you read or
heard about when you are young. In reality, there are lots and lots
of obstacles that both have to face together, in order for that
relationship to work out.
Yes, it may not be the same as before, and to rebuild that trust,
it is tougher and not easily achieveable. However, have anyone ever
give it a thought that when such incidents occurs, it may not be
the fault of a single person. Furthermore, if both parties can get
over the incident and move on with life, ain't the bond going to be
stronger.
In relationship, the bond is strengthen with every single obstacles
that both face and cross over together. Love and bond is build bit
by bit, accumulated over time and not juz an overnight task.
Lastly, again. I am not encouraging anyone to be unfaithful to
their partners. Juz that facing problems instead of running away
from it should be the approach we take in our lives.
