1) His gf lost her virginity at a young age
how
young? under 21, I'll look at her and say something like what were
you thinking, but then I would'nt really mind. just that I'll be
quite disappointed. If 21 or above, I would say that it's ok... in
either case I would have prefered if it was her ex-boyfriend(s). If
not then I also cannot do anything but I will be quite disappointed
too. Wont look at her differently.
2) His gf had sexual relationships with all her past
bfs
if she were to have a sexual relationship with me
then why not with her ex? if she were NOT to have a sexual
relationship with me then I would ask her why... if she gives an
honest good reason then I would be very happy. If she gives a
disappointing reason then I would be disappointed lah... but at
least she's being honest. I might look at her differently (depends
on the situation I guess) but I dont think I would leave her for
that. see how the realtionship progresses.
3) His gf had ONS before
If she says so then ok but again I would be quite disappointed,
I'll need some time to think about it but I dont think I'll look at
her differently after a while, maybe I'd be more possesive.... if
she deny and then I know from another source... wah piang! I'll be
very angry... could lead to a break up.
4) His gf was molested or raped
Sad... take care of her more and not bring this up ever again....
but if she told me that she liked it... whoa! I think I'll stay
away from her for a while and think about it.
Does he mind all these? I wouldnt really mind if
she were to tell me in advance.
Will he treat her the same as before he knows her past? I
would treat her the same... if she didnt tell me/in denial and I
happen to find out from another source then I would treat her a bit
differently.
Will he have a sexual relationship with her just because he thinks
she is loose? I dont understand... I would have a sexual
relationship with her if she wants to, not because she is
loose.
In all cases I would want to know... cuz I think her history (sex,
dating and all) can (I'm not saying that it would but there is a
possibility, so it's better to clear things out) affect the
present.... like the present can affect the future. But I'll want
to know from her and not from any other source(s). So it'll be
better if she told it to me in advance. i would be willing to
accept even the most absurd cases.
