liu tian SG Just want to know if a gal reject a guy in a relationship, does that means the guy will not have a chnace the future? And is there any way to let the gal like that guy?
thhong22 SG reali depends....... c how was it rejected lah.... gals may reject guys bcos mayb now not ready to start r/ship.... still got chance in future, juz needed more time n understanding of each other....... or may reject cos no chance to develop any futher......
browniebaobao SG It depends...It is either there is no chemistry, feeling is not right or the guys has some weakness which the girl dun like. I think the guy still stands a chance so long as he change for the better if the girl dun like his weakness lor.
MagicOne SG No hope loh. Like Scarlot.......Gone with the Wind If the ger interested, she will just shy shy say : we can know each other better first,can. ( meaning, friends first then you court me loh )
snowygal SG for me..if i reject a guy.. it means there is no chemistry between me and him..and i would rather not go into a relationship with him. I need to feel comfortable and able to click with the person.
blurgirl SG me too, if i dun feel comfy around the guy i will reject lor, not because he's no good but just that the sparks are juz not there
MagicOne SG All those things abt spazy feeling and chemistry.......all boil down to first impression. Factors of 1st impress 1.) Ger will assess your look - yaodao, average or below average 2.) Clothing 3.) Attitude - Gentlemen type, Ah Beng type and etc So call feeling is evolved around your package guys.
blurgirl SG For my case more special: 1. Qualifications (Degree holders, diploma etc) 2. Family Background 3. Height 4. Manners sounds like applying for job
MagicOne SG Common lah, singapore ger are mostly educated bunch......so expectation of their future half also RAISE until dunno reach where. ( maybe to mars already ) But i think ger should cut some slacks on the guys too, dun expect too much from first date and disqualifed them. Guys is like a book, there are various content in them. U have to read to know and love it.