Originally posted by SilentNSly:
Well that's equality of the sexes for you!
For a long time, guys have been the one asking girls for more sex.
Why make such a big fuss when girls ask for more?
Girls gave in to guys in the past because they did not want their
boyfriend to find other girls to have sex with. Now you face the
same problem. How does it feel?
Haiz...please I am not one of those guys who keep asking girls
for more sex...I have never been one, even during my teenage life,
cause I simply hate sex and prefer love making. Thus, it would be
meaningless if she is doing it juz to please me....
I think this due to the know fact that Singapore guys have one
of the lowest sexual drive (due to work, stress, environment,
etc).
Ask an 'Ang Mo' male teenager, the more sex, the better.
Pardon me...I dun think I consider myself to have a low sex
drive.
In fact, if my other half has a high sex drive, I am happy
too...Juz that I always respect my other half if she does not wanna
make love and would expect her to respect me too. Girls always have
the mentality that guys are sex creatures, always thinking of sex,
which is not necessary true. We do say NO and would appreciate if
girls will respect that. It is as good as I am being RAPED coz I
said NO and she still force herself on me. Ain't it the same
definition as in a guy raping a girl?
I think you are a failling your gf by not being able to provide
what she wants. Do not blame her.
Hei....Maybe I did...But I really cannot accept the fact that
she wants it every night. Really every night....without fail. And
for your info, I found out from her sister that her previous bf oso
complaint that her sex drive is scary, every night oso want...it's
like 24x7x365...kinda like mission-critical servers support.
[b]Free Advise:
Sex comes naturally, if she has to ask.. that kinda wrong. She
should be able to turn you on and make you want it. Tell her about
it.
Sex does not have to be tiring. Suggest her to get on top and 'do'
you. Or try lying side ways.
Sex does not always require intercourse. Finger her, give her oral
sex or even help her to masturbate with a sex-toy.
I would disagree with you. Sex is not what you have stated. What
you have stated is love making (and love making ain't restricted to
juz intercourse).
Sex like any other exercise requires gradual build up. For
example, you run 1km today and then try to run 10km tomorrow, it
will be difficult. But if you keep increasing the distance ran, you
will finally be able to run 10km. Same for having sex.
ps: hope you do not take this
personal and get angry at me, just trying to help a bit
[/b]
No lah, why would I be angry. In fact, it is good advice for
those who are still in the learning stage. For me, well, I have not
post the full story or everything about me nor that relationship.
Thus, trust me, whatever your advice is, I have done and been thru
all that. I ain't young nor a teenager anymore...
Oh...one more thing, I ain't an intercourse only person. I love to
give pleasure to my other half, be it oral, handjob, etc etc...On
the other hand, I am a more sensitive and emotion person, thus the
'feel' must be there too. Juz like girls dun like guys to treat
them as sex machine, I dun like to be treated like a sex machine
too.
Juz for your info...I had 3 continuous overnight OT due to server
maintenance, and server crashed, and yet every night when I return
home at early hours of abt 2-3am, she still ask me to make love to
her. She is the kind of person who cannot sleep without making love
first...And thus, she always like to have it more than twice.
Futhermore, she is one who prefers the guy on top, to be
dominated.....so.......need I say more.
Guess I ain't the right guy for her...at that time we were
together.
