I would disagree. Premarital sex, if strike a balance, is in
fact a good thing to happen.
For me, I believe in cohabitation and premarital sex. We are in the
modern age. It is not easy to balance between normal love life and
cohabitation & premarital sex. But bear in mind, if done at the
appropriate stage of the relationship, it would in fact boost the
bond between two person.
Cohabitation and Premarital Sex allows you to understand a person
more in-depth. You will be able to see the other side of him/her
that you do not see normally, like living habits which can be very
minor details but potential cause of divorce/break-ups. Trust me,
seen such cases happen all the time. Eg. The girl hate the eating
habit of the guy, who likes to have alot of dishes but each eating
a little and never finish up the whole dish, leaving behind alot of
left-overs. Furthermore, you never know how your other half react
to love making, whether both of you can satisfy each other or not.
In a successful relationship, there will always be a minimum level
of satisfaction between both parties. Else, get ready to see one
party leaving for someone else cause he/she ain't satisfied in
their sex life. Eg. A fren of mine cheated on her husband coz her
husband cannot really satisfied her sexual needs, and later end up
with divorce juz after 2-3 years of marriage.
It is up to individual's mentality and believes. And thus, we
should respect other fellow human for their believes, and not
condemn it.
