Do women their hide sexual history?

last SG · 2003-05-17T11:09:48+00:00

hi newby..to let us know who u replyin to jus click 'quote' at that guy's post..den both your posts appear liao..c u around..

CrazyKoala SG

History is part of her dude! Exclamation
Contradiction!

X-men SG

I think most gals will not tell everything (it's natural. Who wants to go around telling sexual historys)

For me, if my gf wants to tell me...I listen and believe. Don't want to tell me so be it. Percentage of love will still remains. Mr. Green

J fellow SG

best is dont ask, cause if she dont tell u, u anyhow imagine, tell u, u baysong, worse is u know her ex!! wa lah... best dont ask and pretend nothing happen. dont think she'll say if u dont probe into it..

questor SG

yes, Yes and YES we hide almost everything my friend not just sexual history! didn't you know that women are the best liars we even lie to ourself! Twisted Evil

shan_cai SG

Dun mind if a ger replies over here ya?
Actuali when i was wif my bf i oso wanted v much 2 ask him, but didnt haf e courage 2... Until a few wks ago i msg him n ask him if he's a virgin b4 we did tat thing together. His ans was NO. Maybe he's open or wat loh, but i felt disappointed somehow... He stil said he oso dun mind if im not a virgin. But b4 i gave it 2 him he knew tat i was loh... Den stil sound like i lied 2 him or wat.

But i nv regret givin my 1st time 2 him coz i reali love him alot. Wat i regret is askin him tat ques... I agree itz better not 2 noe loh. But i reali reali felt disappointed loh. Now itz oso hard 2 find a guy who's a virgin lah... Haiz... Suan le... Im tryin 2 4get it n try not 2 let it reflect on our current relationship. As u ppl said, everyone's got a past, but wat matters most is e present loh...

Devil1976 SG

You probably might be equally disappointed if his answer is YES..? Cause a MALE VIRGIN nowadays is INDEED a RARE species!! Mr. Green "

cguy SG

ya..it's ok if the gal does not tell u her past. ..or you dont intend to know her past because u lot claimed that you love her sooooo muchi that you dont mind her past..ok i get your point... Ignorance is a bliss...hahah what happened if your best/close friend or your friends' friends had a wonderous nite together with yr current gf before she becomes yr gf??
Wah...how will you react when yr buddies tell u this that they tasted yr gf be4 and later the news spread like fire..even yr families know?? I bet u lot will consider your gf as temporary partner until you find a better one.huh?

cguy SG

To Burt: If you have nothing to share, dont just Fk around. I ‘m not interested if my english is grammatically correct or not….I’m not here to write essays..but pls dont come in here and type bull that your english is good enuf to FK people around.

swallowed SG

exactly! i dont wanna know but what if someone tells me things... wah piang! better if i had known right?

boy in blues SG

Mr. Green if virgin..nothin 2 hide
if not..use scotchtape..

Evil Clown SG

dookie SG

i agree wif u....but smtimes im juz so curious wat she has been doin b4...but to tell the truth...if u cant take it...then better dun try to find out....if not will turn out like wat u said...it will constantly haunt u........

dookie SG

im on the side of cguy and crazykoala....

u guys r so cool...say tat if u really love her...juz let the past go...love her and not her past....yes there is truth in this

but tink abt it...a person's past depicts wat kinda of a person he or she is....so whiteillium is contradicting himself....cos everybody has history and its indeed part of them...and smtings u juz cant send to the recycle bin and hit the delete button...

to each his own...but for me...i whd take this into consideration....and if she has been sleeping ard...then she's not the one i wanto marry and hv kids wif....which is oso part of the reason y ppl say u dun usually end up marrying the one u really love...

dookie SG

i dun believe these kind r really considered as mistakes....at the age when they r hving sex...they shd be young adults oredi...and answerable to their own actions....

they wanto hv fun during their youth...by all means go ahead...but dun cover their own ass by saying they were not mature enuf and made mistakes.....they know the full consequences b4 committing the acts.....but they oso cant blame ppl when they judge u from ur past....juz do wat u like...cos nobody can force u to do wat u dun wanto do....and be answerable for it...dun gv stupid excuses or push the blame..

kawa SG

Well, I am a virgin before i gave it to my gf who happened to be a virgin too!

And I will stay with her to the end of time and not go fool around or find another girl. Nope, i wont shag with another girl!Even if the other party gave herself to me!

And I really do mind if that girl has slept with others before. My apology girls, it's really my thinking though. That's why i really wont sleep around either!

shan_cai SG

Yup, kawa... We share e same tinkin. As mentioned in my postin at pg1, im oso a virgin b4 givin it 2 my bf. But he doesnt turn out 2 b a virgin too loh... Mi not like u so fortunate. Haha.

I oso wont go foolin ard my bf's back, n i do mind abt my bf's past loh, seriously.

1 thing i wanna say is, if u reali love n wanna b wif tat person, meanin u consider marryin him/ her, u shd at least haf an understandin abt his/ her past. U wont wanna regret makin e wrong decision n end up divorcin or wat rite...

kawa SG

To ShanCai

That's correct Miss Shan Cai. But will u submit urself to a guy who is super good than ur bf?

What i mean that mayb ur bf has rating 6, this guy got 9. He's got money, buy u small gifts and flowers everyday, see u at work everyday as he's ur colleague, got car to send u home, go makan together where he offers to pay. He's a gentleman and dont mind that u r not a virgin.

Moroever, u feels that ur love with ur bf has died off. And he really listen to u when u confide in him and u are attracted to his good looks and good body and character(loving and caring).

Qn: Would u break off with ur current bf?

If u ask me this qn, I would be a bit moved, tempted but i yet to met this case myself, so really unable to say that i would be steadfast with the relationship of me and my gf.

`wAwA` SG

me same tactic. but diff situations.. i ask my bf whether he got how many partners.. 6 ex.. 2 pros = 8 partners.. after this i noe tt he visited prostitues.. i abit sianzation liao.. but haiz.. i mean he got all the best thing frm geylang liao.. doing it wif mi ish like no longer special. i dun haf their boobs, looks, skills, body.. of coz i felt i lost out... but regardin the topic, i wun hide my sexual history..
/me dun like to lie..
Laughing

MiSeRy SG

Question is ... do/did YOU sleep around Exclamation

R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n SG

Honestly i think it would unrealistic to say that if you love a person you wont mind his/her past cause whether you like it or not you will be affected by it.

Yes should love a person for who he/she is but i guess sooner or later the past is going to catch up with us. Can you honestly say that if your gf/bf told you they had a thing with another one of your friend or something alike that you wouldnt be affected? I will not hate the person but i sure will be affected it by it emotionally...

It takes great courage and alot of trust for a person to revel their sexual history to their partners but when that person does its a good sign that hes/shes willing to open their selfs up to u and you should be greatfull

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