If ur gf is unfaithful to u, will u forgive her?

Xcert SG

No.

birdbird SG

over my dead body.once the trust is broken,its always hard to build back.moreover,can she really be so sure that she won't cheat again??it will always create a Question in ur mind.....

MagicOne SG

I would bear with pain of losing her ( short-term ), then making myself and herself misery.

Imagine having to suspect if she is sleeping with another guy when you are not with her is a very painful through to have. Some more, when she slept with the guys, she didn't care so much abt you then.

Once broken, even if mend, there is also a scar.

sillyme SG

depends..

sometimes, emotions confuses you.. so when you say one thing now.. you may do another when you really face the problem..

R.e.v.e.l.a.t.i.o.n SG

Aye that is so true... many a times we are blinded by our emotions.. really hard to judge what you will do in that actually situation when anger n hurt seep in than when u cool down theres always pride that comes in and well other emotions that all come into play.

About the part about knowing someone... i think its an ongoing process as much as we think we know a person we all live behind a mask to a certain extend whether we like to admit it or not.

But we are all bound to make mistakes cause we arnt perfect so i guess everybody deserves a 2nd chance no?

CorNeck SG

If by being unfaithful meaning involving sexual intercourse with another guy...

2 Options for me:

If she still loves you:

Take her back..

As if everything is back to normal. Just when she thinks you've forgiven her.. Go into a really long talk.. make her feel sorry. Talk about the years u and the girl have been together. The good times, the sacrifices you've made and everything.

And break up with her. Make her feel real useless and worthless. Make her feel terrible.

Cos' there's always a chance of her cheating you a second time. And she's not worth it. If a girl really loves you, she wont cheat on you in the first place. A girl that really loves a guy would never cheat. That's the real nature of women.

If you know she dont love you anymore:

Just leave. She aint worth it. Go and make the guy she's with suffer or sth like that. Or, just act as if you lost those nude photos of her.. say, u lost ur bag somewhere... but actually, u distribute it over the net.

Or... have a relationship with her best friend, or her mother or her sister. Lol...

If she is unfaithful but no sexual intercourse is involved:

1 option for me:
Take her back. Forgive but never forget. Cherish her with everything you got. Make sure she dont want another man. Hire a personal investigator 24/7. Make love 5 times a day to make sure she wont have the mood to have sex with another man.

Lol..

Alright..just take what you think is good from this post. Haha...

EviL~Do|| SG

If the guy really love the girl and still have hopes for the relationship, i think he will forgive her and try to start things anew. Of cuz, he'll be real hurt cus he loves her alot..

I think its impt to find out why she did it in the first place.. if its jus for the fun of it, its useless for the guy to carry on, since the girl obviously don give 2 hoots bout his feelings...

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