as for girls, if the first time you have sex with your bf and he
flops how would you feel about it?[/i][/b]
Flopping happens, I wouldn't take it personally and sort of put
it down to performance anxiety especially if it's the first time..
and work on getting him to standing to attention again. 
To me making love is just a physical expression of how
you feel about a man emotionally. So if it's someone you care about
deeply, you treat them in a loving manner in and out of bed....
