Originally posted by reallieRAW:
For some1's info who asked if i liked my
galfren:[b]NO...coz im not into
lesbian biz 
Frankly speaking, who do not know tt she was partly at fault for
the mishap? Everyone knows best at heart. Im equally angry at her
for being so naive in giving the BASTARD a FAT chance to get away
scot-free after enjoying a
virgin.
I bet many pple r still not getting wat i mean. Look at the
situation differently. The focus isnt the BASTARD's acts nor my
galfren's naviety, it's abt a gal who gave her 1st time away bcoz
she had trusted some1 though the 'person' wasnt worthy at
all.
In fact, the same day when I heard of this heart-breaking news fr
my galfren, I had another galfren telling me tt she had been
suicidal for the past few days over a guy who admitted likeing her
but hinted more of SEX than dating her 
She was really dispaired....utterly disappted with men & she
told me, 'you know, i do not understand
how men can just turn off their feelings like that' Well, I
was speechless. No answer have I. I only know that emotions have
been women's weakness all along. We, being the women, can
only remind ourselves constantly abt it so tt men out to hurt women
can never have the upper hand.
Yet, I wonder abt this conclusion at the back of every woman's mind
made abt men, if we cant trust our feelings, dun blame us tt we can
see only $$$ bringing more security to us.[/b]
I understand... but dis is abit extreme loh... TRUE got bastards
& a**holes... but there r nice guys... if she view ALL guys as
1 type... then her life gone... so sum times its very
confusing...
Cannot do much abt it either... can only learn from it... dats Y I
"HATE" mankind for dis... da ability to tink... if he dun have da
ability to tink, how can he harbour such tots? but then again...
its a matter of good vs bad... like a coin... 2 sides of da same
thing... confusing...
I feel sorry for yr fren... try to cheer her up. have fun or do
anything, those dat dun have to make her remind of dat
incident...
