wah..another condemnation of my reputation 
but let's face it..many couples find their sex life pale and boring
after a long period of time..so in order to spice it up, they'd
imagine doing it with some babe/hunk while having sex wif his/her
partner..this is often the 1st indication that the r/s is breaking
up..
fyi, i'm just asking..i'm not saying that i condone such an
act.