Don't worry, there are real good man around. Just that they are
shy to ladies.
I've 2 buddies who I really consider them as good man. What I mean
good is those really good kind as compared to average sg man.
One is working with the air-force, another studying in ntu. If you
are interested to expand your scope of friends. Do email me for
their contacts. Trust me, they are real good pals, great for
sincere bf type but if cannot work out then they will be great
friends too.