Dear ZenMan,
Marriage is a union blessed to last till eternity and such things
can't be helped by us but between u and ur depth of undertsanding
of her likes and dislikes.The moment of popping the big question is
very memorable to most and can be done with flair. However, the
time that many grooms tend to forget to make romantic and memorable
is the period of time about an hour or two before the wedding and
the first couple days after it.
So, it's time to pop the question? Keep in mind as you plan your
approach -- this will be one of most significant moments of both
your lives, so you want it to be memorable. Keep it natural and
sincere and you can't go wrong.
If you're a serious, formal kind of guy,make a serious, formal
proposal. If you're a romantic kind of guy, by all means romance
her. And if both of you are daring types, she might prefer
something bold and unusual. Be yourself, but definitely make it a
first,something she will never forget.
Think about it carefully and this proposal should have a lasting
effect for you and your partner that you can relate to your partner
10 or maybe 50 years down the road.
Cheers and congratulations 
